Welcome back to my blog everyone!
I’ve spent my sleeping time too much on this day. But I hope it won’t make my brain being lazy to think and aware of social situations right now. You know, isolated days, make us having a lack of activity. It’s just like we only see the bed all day long without doing anything. But maybe there are some opportunities that you will see if you are a positive man. Because when you just stay at home, you can focus on a thing because no one will distract you, especially if you are living in the rent room like me. You exactly can do many things. Such as learning a foreign language from the country that you loved, practicing dance or sing a song as what you like, writing something as I did, or do another activity that makes you happy and also improve your knowledge and skill.
Today, I wanna tell you about my last blog. Have you seen that? I know that you don’t. But please read that first, because I won’t repeat it here.
According to my last blog, I realize what I’ve done is wrong. Even though I wasn’t blaming them as the netizen did, but I also underestimated them. It’s so sad when I realize it. Meanwhile, I don’t mean it. I just wanna tell everyone to not do the same thing, being a good citizen as we can and don’t make everything be harder for our medical personnel. I do not totally agree with myself if I am wrong. But in another thing, I opened a space for other people to blame them because I was underestimating them. I do apologize for it. But the thing that I SHOULD do is tell those people involved in their fault and give them the best solution as I can. It’s the thing that I and you all should do. But the reality is, we blamed and underestimated them. Maybe there are some people who give them a piece of good advice but mostly don’t.
You know guys, blaming someone or underestimating them is a kind of bullying. When you did it in social media, so you did the cyberbullying. Do you think it’s cool? Or do you think that you are right by blaming and cursing at them? No, you don’t! You just create another bulliers in the next period. Why? Because when they get blames and curses from all of you, then one day if there is another case like this happen all of sudden, then they will be bulliers as you did. The blames and curses that the victim gets, it will stay in their mind forever. Why do I tell you if they are the victim? Then I ask you back, who is the victim here? All of you? And they are the suspects? Oh, come on, what they did to you? Do they harm you? No. They even live in a different city with you.
You don't agree with me, do you? I know that. Because they will harm people around them. Exactly right, so the people who should angry with them are the people around them, not you. If you really care about Indonesia's situation right now, you should aware of Indonesian Mental Health too. Blaming someone is unhealthy for their mental. You know that. Don’t be naive, please. We all know, as a human, sometimes we made a mistake. But well, just be a good person to another. Don’t act like you never make any mistakes. Maybe you never do the same fault with them, I’m glad to hear that. But when you do something wrong, what do you expect from people around you? Reflecting it in yourself. Do you wanna get a blames? Or a piece of advice? Just be honest, people need advice. So, you have to do that.
Please stop being judges and bulliers for our brothers and sisters in this country. Just remind each other and say a good word as you can and don’t hurt someone’s feeling. Because no one deserves to be bullied or blamed. Let’s start from ourselves first, then remind people around us, also your mutual on Twitter and Instagram even on Facebook too. Be a good version of human beings. And please love peace and try to be comfortable live in peace without any conflicts.
Cheer,
Nica
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