Happy Monday!
I'm back with this blog. I have decided the day to update. I think I'm gonna be busy on the weekend, so I decide to update it on Monday till Thursday. Yeah, even I sometimes miss a great thing to be shared, but I won't have enough time to write on the weekend.
I actually got a headache from 3 days ago till this morning, but I feel better now. In my opinion, the problem with my head is my hair, so I decided to cut it. I ask my mom to go to the salon, but my mom said, don't go now anywhere. If you can stay at home and please did it and don't do many interactions with people out there till the virus down. Then I said hmm yeah. But I won't give up, so I cut this hair by my own hand. Then yeah, It's better than not. I actually wanna be a bald-headed girl. But my mom said that I'm stressed enough to think about that. My mom told me to pray as much as I can. I just don't understand. I don't think if it has any correlation between my pray and my hair.
My mom said that I'm still a young lady, so I don't have to do the thing that I shouldn't do. It's not easy to be a girl. There are so many rules that I have to follow. By the social norms, I even can't express myself as what I wanna be. Head-balded is just for a boy while a girl should have long beautiful hair. I don't even care if people will hate me or don't wanna be my boyfriend even my husband. Because beauty ain't coming from the hair, it comes from the heart. If there are no men who wanna marry because I ain't beauty, then what I have to do?
I just believe if every girl is beauty in their own way. Every GIRL is BEAUTY. No ONE is UGLY. So stop comparing girl to girl. Stop comparing our height, weight, skin tone, type of face, type of nose, type of hair, type of style, etc. Girls don't need to be compared. And stop criticizing the girls, even when they use the red lipstick or blush on, when they don't have any hair, when they even do everything on her face or body. Just let it be. As long as it makes her happy, then why people have to make her be lack of confidence.
It's like, for being beautiful and cute, girls should follow the rules and standardization of it. While not all of the girl was born with light skin, big eyes, pointed nose, beautiful long hair, sweet smile, and the good proportion of the body. Some of them are different from the beauty standard which has been constructed in society's mind.
It's so sad till some girls feel if they're so ugly. When girls think that they're ugly, and many things will be thought again. They don't deserve to be loved by someone. They don't deserve to work and have a nice job. They don't deserve to use good clothes or outfits. Even they will think if they don't deserve to be called 'beauty and lovely' itself.
Praising someone because of their beauty, you probably think if it's a little think and doesn't have any meanings. But you are totally wrong. And if you are a girl, don't be naive too.
You know, when people call me beauty. Then I will feel so confident in that day, I will smile and have a good mood all day long. But once you say if my make up doesn't match with my outfit, then, I'm gonna be bad mood all day long. Even, match or not match have the standardization. In my opinion, it doesn't! Match or not match don't have any standardization. As long as you feel comfort and deal with it, then use it. If people don't like to see your style, then tell them, "Don't look at me!". People can see many things in this world, then if you don't like something, why you keep seeing on it? Just ignore it and find something you like.
If you don't like a girl because of her style, then find another girl to be someone you loved. Don't try to command her to be changed. Or you will be the worse one because you give the limited access of a girl to express themselves.
It's all for today, respect every girl in this world by her natural self.
Cheer,
Nica
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