Finding the purpose of my life

 Hello, 


I hope you always be healthy guys. I wanna tell you if starting from yesterday 5/5, I decided to quit from some Social Media like Twitter, Instagram, and Facebook. Why? Because they were the most-use of socmed. I just don’t wanna be an ordinary person who active on socmed. Also, I wanna have more time to face my real world. I decided to stop wasting time on something useless. Actually, I’ve stopped open my Instagram Account for 3 days and when I open it again, I feel like…there’s no something beneficial on my account. So I decided to not open it again. When I open my Twitter Account, I being addicted because there’s a lot of funny things on Twitter, till I spend so much time to scroll down again and again. But one thing that I realize, the information that I got from it, is not too important for my life. It’s just an information and not a piece of knowledge or science. It doesn’t improve my skills too or help me reach my dream. Meanwhile, some people just make me envy because of their success or make me insecure because they can be so precious while I’m just a little part of the dust who cant have and reach anything.

I’m not saying that socmed is toxic. But..it’s just not important for my life. That’s it.

I found the purpose of my life. Socmed is just not the thing that can help me to fulfill my purpose. I’m still using some socmed like YouTube because I shared my videos there, also the Spotify because I share my podcast there, and I’m still using Pinterest because my motivation is coming from there. 

How I can find my purpose in life? I read the theory and Quran as the holy book in My religion. You don’t need to ask further why the Quran can be a source to find my purpose in life, right?

But how can the theory be one of the sources? Well. Let me tell you the common statement that Indonesian usually said. When a tragedy or a phenomenon happens, there will be a person who said, “There is a theory to explain it…”. Then people commonly respond with, “It’s just the theory and this is the reality, they’re different”.

What do you think of it? Are you agree with them? Or have you ever think about how or why a theory could exist?

As a social student, I personally believe if a theory comes as a response to a phenomenon. Its existence is using to explain how a phenomenon can be happened and giving a solution for other similar phenomena that maybe happen in the future. It also can be a preventive way for some phenomena.

There is a lot of theory in this world. We can find one or more theories which are suit with what we need for life, in every aspect of life. Firstly, I just use the theory for my study and do my task. But now, I use the theory to explain everything happens in my life and for something that I plan for the future. That’s how I find my purpose. I create my own imaginary future life then I make a list of plans to build it. Even though, I never forget if I’m just a human and God will decide it, it’s good or not for my life. I also believe with the fates. But there are some fates that can still change as long as we struggle for it. 

I’m an insecure girl inside. But I'll never be afraid to have a big dream even though I’m just a little part of the dust. It’s like…everything is possible…it means every dream can be reached too. If the reality doesn’t run as we wish, just believe if God has another amazing plan for us. And the theory also the holy book exists to give us an understanding of every aspect of life. Marked this too..theory is not only the statement which talks about the science. Some theories exist to explain how our daily life goes…or maybe the science is close to our daily life.

I believe if the person who underestimates with the theory is the one who never makes a change of a life story.

Don't forget to read your holy book too. Especially, if you're a moslem. You will get so many rewards by reading it in Ramadhan's time. 


Cheer,



Nica

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